To the Boys Who May One Day Date My Daughter - Video
I fucking hate this bullshit so much.
Its misogynistic, archaic asscrap.
YOUR DAUGHTER IS NOT YOUR PROPERTY.
WHO SHE DATES OR SLEEPS WITH IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. THINKING OTHERWISE IS INCREDIBLY CREEPY AND INVASIVE.
SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE HER OWN CHOICES AND MISTAKES.
YOU DON’T MAKE THE RULES. SHE IS NOT CATTLE. HER LOVE LIFE IS NOT YOUR CONTRACT. SHE MAKES THE RULES.
Not only are you advocating for a father to not care about his daughter, but you’re also misinterpreting the video horribly. He threatens the man that breaks his daughter’s heart. He threaten’s the man that hits her. That takes away her smile. He does not say she cannot love anyone, male or female, he says that they better love her. And if that’s not what a father is supposed to do, then I’ll be damned.
Maybe I’m wrong, I accept that, but please… please explain to me how fatherly love and care for his daughter is an archaic and misogynistic practice. Explain to me how allowing her to date who she loves, to do what she wants, and teaching her to not put up with abuse is wrong. I would love to hear it, she might not be his property, but he is her guardian, and guarding her happiness is no crime.
It’s not like he’s saying that he won’t let his daughter date anyone or be with anyone. He could probably care less who his daughter dates, just doesn’t want her to be heartbroken.
I mean I know a few dads like that, but as soon as they turned 18 they stopped putting in their input. One of them said “If you ever want to put a scare into someone who hurts you, just let me know”
He definitely isn’t treating her like property, he wants boys and girls [[and any non-binary genders I assume]] that if they hurt her, he’ll put a scare in them, and if they love her, he could care less who it is.